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Really really can't stand my MIL. She always disagrees with me and makes me look stupid in front of my own kids and husband. How do you stand yours?
Will you be angry with your spouse if he has forgotten about your birthday on the actual day but has already given you a birthday present in advance ?
I feel being a bit unattached to my husband..sometimes i wish we were younger back when times was still fun,chasing, and laughing and making love to each other every week. It's pretty hard to keep that spark right now that we have a kid and married and so many obligations to face..have anyone felt the same way once?
How do you define terror in-laws?
I hv catch my husband been telling lies. He keep telling me he goes to wk. But actually no. He will go out and drink at golden mile. As a wife wat would u do n etc.
Need to let it out... My husband keep saying me not being flexible enough in thinking. He dislike my family.. and I dislike his family.. but I am staying in my parents house. His way of taking care of our lo is different from mine. And he always insist on his way. But I am a stay home mom, so I can have all the time to take care of my lo. I just feel that after having my lo, my relationship with my husband is rocky. Always quarrel about lo or our family members. Sometime I thinking of divorce and live my own life with my lo. But I am a sahm, maybe custody will not be given to me. I really so tired. I starting to be quiet and ignore things that I don't like or don't wish to hear.. and when he is taking care of my lo, I will start to play games so I can totally not care how his way of taking care. His has a big ego and everything I try talking to him end up he will put his thinking into me. Making me think that his way is better. Dam irritating de. No point talking out to such a selfish person. My lo is 2 months plus.
Divorce
Please give me advise.. how to u gain confident to divorce and how u go through.. i think i had enough and don't think that hub will change to a good father at all.. i was out today with my elder to meet friend.. so i came back late.. around 11 i think.. i pump some of my milk, bath then become 12 plus.. so i need to wash and sterilize again my pump.. the girl haven sleep.. so the father carry but still lying on bed.. he sometimes does carry and walk the girl, but not as frequent as us.. so i came in room to see him lying down and place the girl near the edge but inside his arm.. i carry her up then did some thing.. then i go in to see him playing phone again.. so i told him not sleeping.. he say wait for me.. i told him i still have things to do so i wan to ask him carry the girl.. he say he just now carry liao, then i say u have to walk cause if cry will wake the brother up.. he give me face.. then i ask again are u going to help.. he say i help just now what.. i say i got things to do.. he say cannot do tomorrow morning meh.. i say cannot (i sterilize pump and prepare son school day, also he never once did this).. then he say then why come back so late.. do things do 5 hours ah.. then i say i also not every time come back so late.. then he say not meh.. then i say him leh.. he can come back so late i cannot ah.. he say cause work.. he also say come back late on weekends.. i told him weekdays he also meet friend come back late.. even i went out i also bring son go.. not like i go alone.. then he go to sleep.. as if i can be like him, want sleep jiu sleep.. i think i had my last straw le.. should i just kick him off.. honestly, felt like i will be happier if he is gone.. my kids will be better without him.. he never bring kids out alone.. only to downstair.. then last argument i told him i bring the letter to him to divorce.. he say thank u, pls.. i tell him i make sure i show him this few days.. lol.. i don't think i can tolerate him anymore..
What's your comment??? ...................... I want to divorce my husband for some reasons. It's a mental torture for me. No point talk to him because it's useless and waste of time. That's something that I see in his messages. He even go out drinking. He plays mahjong. He lies. Don't take care of me and my daughter. I want a full custody of my daughter. We are literally married for 1 year plus. With his f attitude and things that he do...really pisses me off. I have full evidence on this. What u say??
I am a SAHM and nowadays times are so bad, job hopping is not that advisable either thus my husband sometimes said that he wished he dont work. Can see that he is really tired and feel heartpain for that. How can I motivate him show him my appreciation? It has been long I bought him something too as I am no longer working... Feel so helpless in this.
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