Random Talk

My hubby had a good talk with me last night as we hug to sleep in bed . He told me how he felt neglected and being treated like a last priority ever since I had my second baby 1 year ago .. also because I have been busy settling baby's stuff after kids have fallen asleep that I seldom sleep at the same time as hubby. Last time when we had #1, we always make it a point to go to bed at night together . I think he misses me at bedtime at night (not necessary to BD but we always hug to sleep ). I feel really bad but appreciate that he tells me honestly how he feels . I want to think of ways to quickly finish all that I need to settle , wash up and go to sleep together with hubby .. I think my main problem is after a long day as SAHM , my main way to relax and zonk out is to take my own sweet time to do things , and some "me" time etc .. hubby already helped me out with his housework so I have no excuse that I'm bogged down by housework .. I think I'm jus taking my own sweet time to do things. Need to work fast intentionally knowing that my dear hubby is looking forward to sleep at the same time together with me . He tried to wait for me but sometimes is too late and he gotta wake up early the next morning at 6am to send my boy to his primary sch..so he needs to sleep early . We don't have much help too so to want to plan for a date for just the both of us is not easy ..any good suggestions to make him feel special and to let him know that I still love n treasure him very much? :)

What's the biggest sacrifice that your spouse has done for you?

My 15 months old keep touching things, even after I have smack her palm and telling her no. She will just move on and touch other things.. Or if I carried her away, she will just go limp and arch her back. It's getting on my nerve because I'm the only one who will go and stop her. My mil is the one who cares for her during the day. And now I'm resenting her because she allows my Daughter to run around and touch things.. My fil also said, "whatever she wants just let her take." We have told them many times already not to but they just don't listen.. And I'm really frustrated, especially during CNY visiting. My Daughter just go around touching things like nobody's business and what does my in law do? Nothing!

I've not have sex with my hubby since we found out I was pregnant in early 2016. Baby was born prematurely and is stable now. Recently I told hubby I hope to have another baby in a few years time. He said he doesn't want to because he is afraid I will have another premature delivery. Last night, I tried to initiate sex but his body language tells me he is not keen. I feel so upset. What should I do? It has been so long and I want to get intimate again.

Can you say that you're happy with how you are as a wife and a mother?

How did you tell your hubby that he was going to be a dad? I did it via FB messenger! Boring, haha

I think some people here may need the book when it is out http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/getting-married-know-your-rights-obligations?utm_campaign=Echobox&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&xtor=CS1-10 href='/feed/hash/link_time=1486080216'>#link_time=1486080216

When you're feeling low, how do you get yourself back up? I'm feeling very unmotivated these days. I love my kids, my husband... but I'm just not in the mood to be a mum or wife these days.

I'm beginning to dislike my MIL. Whenever she comes to stay over at my place, I feel that she 'snatches' my toddler away from me. She wants to send her to school, fetch her from school, feeds her, put her to bed. I can't even have some time with my toddler when I come home from work.....

How soon is it safe for intercourse after giving birth?