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Anybody tried ordering confinement catering? Any recommendation for catering tat is not too ex? Tian Wei Confinement catering looks good but the pricing is too high for me to afford. Am thinking if it is possible to find one where e food is acceptable & a little more cheaper? Thanks!
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Any mommies stay at home but kids put at full day childcare ?? And why?
Hi, I am currently pregnant with my 2nd child. My first child is being taken care of by my mil (stay opposite us). The plan was to put my first child in childcare and my mil will take care of 2nd child.. However mil expressed that she doesn't not want to take care of my 2nd child as she finds it tiring. So it has been decided that my Mom will take care of both my children after my ML. Hubby suggested that I will stay at my parents house from Monday to Friday and then he will pick us up on Friday to go home. He said in this way, we don't need to travel up and down as it will be tiring. I am happy that my Mom will be taking care of my children but on the other hand, I feel bad about leaving hubby alone at home during the weekdays.. I asked him whether will he feel neglected and he said no. He said he will come up and visit me and children when he misses us and that me and him can arrange to go for dates.. I am just concern how things will do between me and him after awhile..
Kind of out of topic... A friend of mine is really upset that her 15 year old dog is dying. How do I console her? I'm not a pet lover myself so not sure how to react. Anyone been in the same situation?
Any recommendations for a good camera to take baby photos? Need one that can take relatively clear photos when he is moving, phone camera always turns out blurry!
Hi, has anyone gone on a Royal Carribean cruise (those 3night type with a stopover at Penang) with your lo? Is it enjoyable or boring?
I think my kid is quite ugly. She's 2 and her nose is very flat and her eyes has no double eyelid. What age can I send her for plastic surgery?
Rant post: I read a post on fdw, on their views of how employers treat them. I sympathise with some of them, especially those who didnt get enough to eat or only allowed to use phone on their off days. But I've to say, some abused the freedom their employers gave them. Ive given my helper the freedom to use her phone whenever as long as her work is done. But strictly no phone while taking care of LO when LO is awake. She likes to "abuse" it when im not watching. I corrected her nicely and let her know if there is any emergency she needs to use while watching LO, jus let me know. I'll let her deal wif wat she has to do, no problem. But she likes to "test system". I would understand y some employers wouldn't allow their help to use phone now. Ive given my helper all e freedom to eat watever she wans at home. We eat e same when we go out. Ive never made her do any chores on her off days and sometimes gave her pay earlier so that she have money to go out. But she chose to lie to me about laundry days. We do our laundry on alternate days n happened tat day fell on her off day. She tot i would ask her to do it b4 she leaves but it has been said to her since day 1 tat she didnt have to do anyting. I will do it if it falls on her off day. She likes to watch tv (ive never said no to wat she wans to watch or when she wans to watch as long as she does her chores properly) n do the dishes at e same time. I didnt mind bcoz i dun see it as a problem. But it became a problem when she hastily wash them just so she could catch e korean drama. Most of the time, e dishes r not properly cleaned. My helper wakes up at 630am, finish most of her chores by 1030am. And from then on it is only very minor chores like washing dishes when baby eats. Her Job is only to vacuum, mop on alternate days, quick wipe furniture (3 room flat), n cook baby porridge for lunch, laundry with washing machine. Dats all. And occasionally help me watch LO if i go to the loo. There is no cooking or ironing. She gets an hr rest at abt 4pm. In fact by then, she is almost "knock off from work". I really dun see it as very tedious. And lots more. I've said my piece and told her nicely but never took any "freedom" away from her. There were changes made for awhile and then fell back to square 1. So isit my fault tat i m too lenient? So please if there r any helpers reading dis, it isnt all e time wher e employers r overly strict wif u. You may have done something that warrant their reaction too. Xoxo
Moms. I have divorce with ex hub already. We have 2 kids and monthly he have to pay me $200. But my salary is only 2k. Ppl keep asking me to go family court to review the monthly payment. Ask me get more. By right, I should ask for more right? I don't like too much trouble but on the other hand, I don't have alot to support my kids. Should I just go family court and review to ask for more? Thank.
Married with my husband for coming 2 years. I have 15 month daughter. My husband is having affair. I would like to get a separation first. By next year will be divource which is the 3rd year. We have property house under our name. House is only 1 year old resale. How.