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i need advice. Going through divource process soon. My house is only 2 years and 4 months. didnt meet MOP. Can we still sell the house before 5 years. or HDB will take the house before 5 years since couple divource. I heard about surrender and freeze the HDB. Seiously not sure what is the meaning. I hoped parents out there can advice me. i have decided to 60% and my husb 40%. I dont want the house anymore. How

I think it's best you talk to a divorce lawyer who can advise you correctly. Try one from this list: https://sg.theasianparent.com/top-10-divorce-lawyers-in-singapore-getting-the-legal-help-you-need/

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May i know usually how much maintenance/alimony that he must give every month?? I dont wish to get every month from him. Can i just ask if it is possible to ask him to give me $50000 to $100000 one shot? can or cannot. I am just asking because what if that particular month he dont pay then how? Please help. 10q

That's depending on the settlement. I believe with the right laywer and bid of settlement, you can get whatever it is you require provided that it's justifiable.

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chronically ill and in pain spouse

My Husband is always in pain and I can’t cope. It’s been 4 years and his pain has been non stop. It’s fustrating. And he’s unable to chip in much into raising our child - and even when he does he acts like it’s the biggest most painful thing in the world. We both still work, so at least financially he’s not a burden. But he’s always in pain and we don’t go out much or have much of a life as he’s usually too sick or too tired to do anything. I know society doesn’t allow women to vent or be miserable with a sick spouse but I feel like this is not the marriage or life I envisioned for myself. I am still in my twenties and we have a small baby. I don’t plan to leave him. And I do love him. But I cannot imagine the next few decades stuck like this. It just feels so good just to write this. I would never tell friends or family what how I feel, lest I be seen as an uncaring monster.

chronically ill and in pain spouse

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When you can’t give anymore - is when you need to give some more. Sorry it’s been tough.

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Need advice!! What to bring or required for filing for divource?? What documents required?? What depts are they looking at?? Looking forward to hear and get advice from Divourcee parents.

may i know what kind of assets.

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anything fun to do for nationL day in sg with the kids?

national day

You could bring them down to Esplanade area to see the fireworks.

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If you can’t be both

which would you rather be good at: being a spouse or being a parent?

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cutest things your kid has said

What’s the most adorable thing your kid has said?

cutest things your kid has said

“Mummy, I don’t want u to grow old, I just love u at this height”

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Is this apps already change ? No longer have the chat group ?

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Yup we removed Chat group for now as there was quite a bit of spamming going on :)

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toddlers say the cutest things

Shan (2 years 5 months): pls ask for my permission before you kiss me mama, it’s not very nice otherwise Mama: can I pls kiss you now, Shan Shan: yes, but only 4 times. Count mama. Mama: okay. 1 kiss, 2 kiss, 3 kiss, 4 kiss, (5....) Shan: no no no no - only 4. Stop. No. No. Only 4. Mama: (still wants to kiss her baby...) okay - now we count to 4 in Bahasa? And then in Chinese? Shan: okay! Mama: yes! Win!

toddlers say the cutest things

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Awww sweet. It's interesting because I also ask permission to kiss my girls (who are 5 and 3 years old), as a subtle way of teaching them about consent

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safe for toddler to drink?

We are both down with a dry cough. Is Nin Jiom Pei Pa Kao safe for her to drink?

safe for toddler to drink?

Above age of 3, according to the bottle

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