Feeling Bad

I been feeling very tired during my pregnancy , currently in my 17 weeks . Feeling giddy , nauseous , lower abdominal cramps/pain sometimes during the day. And I got no mood to work at all, but I can’t keep taking MC / leave as I have used up quite a bit of it during my 1st 2 mths of my pregnancy as I have very bad morning sickness. Now sometimes I will force myself to go work when I’m not feeling well which only make myself depress more , some of my colleagues (who never get pregnant and is not married)understands me and will let me rest inside the office but some (who is a mother and father) don’t , they will just give you faces or give bad remarks when you rest inside or when you took MC/Leave ,and cause I’m working in service line which makes things worse and I don’t always get good customers and was even shouted at once when I’m at work . I still got 5more mths to go and I don’t know how long more I can endure . I’m really tired

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Jiayou jiayou! I understand how you are feeling. The nausea can get so bad that u just don’t feel like working. It saddens to hear that your colleagues who are parents themselves are making things worse for you. I am also at my early stages of pregnancy and am just praying to be strong everyday. Things will get better!

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im in my 17weeks now. hindi ako dumaan ng morning sickness, but im experiencing HAND cramps every night. buti na lang I talked one of my friend's mom, and she tought me this DAHON NG ASUETE remedy. the first night i tried it, I really was amazed. still cramps is there pero out of 100% yung pain, nasa 20% na lang siya.

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I can really relate about situation . . we are working on the same field i think as CSR if im correct? Working on a graveyard shift is never an easy thing esp. If you have coleagues who cant understand what ur going through. . feeling like resigning for work coz all u feel is u are tired every moment of your life. .

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Oh we have the same situation, I lie down the bed all the time, I feel so bored and tired, I have frequent small watery discharges on my underwear which makes me worry, I also got menstrual cramps-like symptoms in my pelvic area, then LBM occur last 2days which makes me feel more sick. I'm also on my 17weeks

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5y ago

Ako din madalas masakit ang puson ko. 17 weeks 4 days.

Hi ! I used to be in service line. I have some colleagues apply for hospital leave from the gynae to rest for better rest at home. To be honest i think you should take care of your well-being. 60days hospital leave would bring about 3months stay at home. So few of my colleagues did that when they reach their 7month mark.

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7y ago

My HL only left with 10 days :( so I hv to use it wisely . And your friend got a straight 60 days HL from the gynae ?

17 weeks din po ako and feeling so tired. sobrang tamad kahit gusto ko sana kumilos at mag work pero hinihila talaga ako ng katamaran. amg hirap mag work kahit simple tasks lang. masakit din balakang ko at kumo-connect sa legs ko. Anuba ginanagawa nyo mommies para labanan ang katamaran?

5y ago

pag may free time, spend more sa sleep and rest, wag na mag cellphone pa. then hilut hilutin lang lagi ung likod ng tuhod at talampakan. ganon ginagawa ko

I resigned 2 weeks ago due to my first pregnancy. My first trismister is soo unbearable. I had experience worse morning sickness.I work in a banking sector. My work and boss make me stressful. Its hard to maintain good performance at work. Therefore I decided to resigned eventhough I love my job.

Prioritize mo muna health nyo ni baby .. kesa over work ka at feeling exhausted sa lahat ng bagay . di ka dapat nagpapaka stress msyado ... you know , worth it nman lahat ng desisyon if mganda nman ung magiging outcome . lalu na kung hindi nman habang buhay gnyang situation mo .. ☺️☺️ Godbless po

Same here mummy, feeling tired and afraid carrying heavy things because it might cause harm to my baby. That's why sometimes I can't clean the house. One day, the sister of my hubby went here and said that I'm just lazy. It made me sad because she didn't know how I feel.

I believed many mothers to be have probably experiencing the same issue. Ultimately still prioritize your baby and yourself first. Work will never done .. keep them secondary.. support from colleagues are important as well.. ignore those who are negative.. keep yourself positive ! 💪🏻