Feeling Bad

I been feeling very tired during my pregnancy , currently in my 17 weeks . Feeling giddy , nauseous , lower abdominal cramps/pain sometimes during the day. And I got no mood to work at all, but I can’t keep taking MC / leave as I have used up quite a bit of it during my 1st 2 mths of my pregnancy as I have very bad morning sickness. Now sometimes I will force myself to go work when I’m not feeling well which only make myself depress more , some of my colleagues (who never get pregnant and is not married)understands me and will let me rest inside the office but some (who is a mother and father) don’t , they will just give you faces or give bad remarks when you rest inside or when you took MC/Leave ,and cause I’m working in service line which makes things worse and I don’t always get good customers and was even shouted at once when I’m at work . I still got 5more mths to go and I don’t know how long more I can endure . I’m really tired

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Same din po ng feelings... Roller coaster mood. 😭Tapos my face and head sobrang kati meron na ako paltik sa face then balukubak ko mas lalo lumalala.. Pero hindi naman ako ganito sa first baby ko...Lalo yata ako sumelan sa pangalawa... 😭😭😭

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Ang sisipag nyo nmn mommies. Ako gusto ko lng nkhiga 😂 Asawa ko lahat nagalaw dito sa bahay. Super selan kunting my mgawa lng sakit n agad puson or likod. kaya pinahihiga nlng ko ng asawa ko para safe de kmi parehas ni baby

I dont feel bad since day 1, walang spotting, nausea, o ano pa man. and I'm enjoying my journey, gutumin lng talaga. wala ako work kaya tutok ako kay bb at hubby. Ang sarap lng sa feeling na nakikipagcooperate si baby at family ko. 17weeks here

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im also 17 weeks im usually tired and i feel lots of pain in my thighs, legs and arms.. i can only walk few steps then get tired most times. thankfully my boss allowed me to take a leave so i stay at home until i pop.

I am currently experiencing the same. and true enough, the ones with kids are the ones who just couldn't understand and show no apathy. I have bad nausea and upper body ache. So tired yet can stop thinking about work.):

I feel the same way , i always want to take leave and have some rest . I thought i was the only one experiencing this kind of situation. Then this post came up, don't mind other people what's important now is your baby, They need us the most...

If its possible, try to ask for Leave of absence covering your entire pregnancy. Companies allow it.. But for me, i preffered resigning. I want to be able to take of our little one when he/she comes out. 👍😊🙏

Be strong, thats life.. We cant expect everyone to understand our situation same goes to we cant underatand theirs situation too.. Suggesr u talk to your husband and discuss on which will be a better way for you. GOD BLESS U

I took a 2 weeks leave in my 1st month since I experienced spotting and even missed our Christmas Party in the office but its okay. Baby is our top priority. I hope you overcome these negative emotions asap so it does not affect the baby.

Same case here. Much better if you're going to file your resignation. Focus on your baby and you. You have to sacrifice first but soon, more and more blessings will come and one of those is your baby :)